An Evolution of Self: My vulva is NOT vulgar

What is Evolution?

“We began as a mineral.

We emerged into plant life, and into the animal state, and then into being human, and always we have forgotten our former states, except in early spring when we slightly recall being green again.

That’s how a young person turns towards a teacher.

That’s how a baby leans toward the breast, without knowing the secret of its desire, yet turning instinctively.

Humankind is being led along an evolving course, through the migration of intelligences, and though we seem to be sleeping, there is an inner wakefulness that directs the dream, and that will eventually startle us back to the truth of who we are.”

— The Story of Evolution

— Rumi, 13th Century

12.24.2013

My vulva is NOT vulgar

I have often been accused of being vulgar or crass or non-PG 13 because of the ways I choose to express myself.

However,

unlike many others,

I have never found it necessary to tone down or dilute who I am for the sake of others.

See, I can only be me...

Uncensored, unadulterated, unapologetic Nadya Dee.

I curse (a lot), I swear (ism't that the same thing?) I talk about sex (incessantly) and I don't come with a mute or volume button.

Many may find this a problem. But I don't.

Many may mistake my preoccupation with sex to mean that I want to have sex with them.

but that is hardly ever the case.

Do I like sex? Of course I do. It's obvious to any and all who encounter me.

Perhaps if I was a man my approach to sex would not seem as vulgar, but I find it more vulgar when a man speaks about vagina (as if he has one) than when a woman speaks about the same "organ" which she has intimate knowledge of.

So I will continue being who I am, sans apology and sans any intention to alter who I truly am.

If you have a problem with that, well, that's exactly what it is...

YOUR problem.

Not mines.

Vulgarly yours,

Nadya Dee.

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